Since starting this blog, I’ve become a big fan of the postsecret.com blog which I gave a nod to on my About page.
One of the secrets shared last week was “Sometimes when I am driving I pretend a famous person is sitting in the passenger seat having a great time with me.”
While I haven’t done that exactly, I’ll admit there’s been the odd morning when I’ve arrived at work after my 40-minute commute without even being conscious of driving because I daydreamed about what I would do if I won the lottery.
I’ll reveal another one of my secrets. Growing up, I loved watching Love Boat and Fantasy Island on Saturday nights. It was exciting to be whisked away each week to an exotic locale, a new romance and a new fantasy. Today, fantasy TV has been replaced by reality TV. Why? It must be because there’s just not enough reality in our lives.
I think it’s time we bring fantasy back into our lives. Fantasizing can be liberating, exciting, and inspiring. It’s an escape from the ho-hum and can get your creative juices flowing, spark your imagination and make you feel happy.
And yet I’m going to go out on a limb and say I bet most people won’t admit to having an active fantasy life. It’s a bit like admitting you vote Green or watch The Batchelor.
This week’s Happy Act is to fantasize. I don’t expect you to share your fantasy but if you are comfortable sharing, please keep it clean—this blog is rated G and some of my kids’ friends read it. I would like to try a little experiment though. How many of you are willing to at least post a comment admitting you fantasize sometimes (and I know you do). How brave are you? Let’s see.